tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2864708808295376991.post5998394039866286180..comments2023-09-19T08:14:41.357-07:00Comments on iGoddess: "because i can't bear it"Soul Funk Goddesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04850702763469159461noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2864708808295376991.post-1221782153001320732007-11-19T09:41:00.000-08:002007-11-19T09:41:00.000-08:00uh ...yup, what greggo said. Tough pill to swallow...uh ...yup, what greggo said. <BR/>Tough pill to swallow, I'm sure, but I think there's a ton of truth in what he wrote.<BR/><BR/>It sounds like you're heading over to "the bad place" and you must never, ever go there. Do not shut yourself off from your feelings.<BR/>Do not numb yourself to cope in this lover/room-mate/wtf situation. Do not hold things in to avoid conflict with him. <BR/><BR/>Lay your freaking funkalicious cards on the table that is your LIFE, and get this shit in order right now!<BR/>The tears are good. Let them wash all the toxic poisons from your soul...but when they stop, be yourself. Welcome your SELF back and he might too.<BR/><BR/>One more thing...and I don't want to push you "over the edge", but I can see the tiniest hint of sabotaging this relationship in your words...is this an igoddess mechanism to avoid being hurt?<BR/><BR/>Are you building that metaphoric brick wall between the lines of communication?<BR/><BR/>He's still there. If it gets to be too hard, he might leave, you know that.<BR/>TALK TO HIM NOW. <BR/>BE YOURSELF. <BR/>DON'T BE SCARED.<BR/>xoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2864708808295376991.post-7158395855022134642007-11-19T08:58:00.000-08:002007-11-19T08:58:00.000-08:00*hugs you while hoping things start to get better ...*hugs you while hoping things start to get better asap*Azhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00603575238249739866noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2864708808295376991.post-43117552538518662512007-11-17T23:29:00.000-08:002007-11-17T23:29:00.000-08:00started a comment here, but ended up sending you a...started a comment here, but ended up sending you an email instead. i guess you can consider this an addendum.<BR/><BR/>i didn't read this blog for a while, both because i suspected you didn't want me to, and because i knew i lacked the strength to keep from commenting on whatever you might be going through.<BR/><BR/>for both of those reasons, and because i have no place in your life anymore, i'm now going to stop reading it again, but before i do, i just want to point out that when we started talking again, and i came back to this blog, it wasn't iGoddess anymore. the concepts of pronoia and finding the funk had fallen by the way. and it is tragic for the loss of inspiration to those who read it, but so much more so to you, the one who was living like a pronoiac, who had been for all those months finding the secret gifts that life was offering her, and who was believing in herself as she always should have. as you should now.<BR/><BR/>with *m* or without, you need to find your iGoddess again. i pray that you do.<BR/><BR/>with love,<BR/>greggoGreggohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14513431229566322384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2864708808295376991.post-74187091930542208572007-11-17T12:06:00.000-08:002007-11-17T12:06:00.000-08:00oh delena, my heart goes out to you. screw respect...oh delena, my heart goes out to you. screw respecting his manhood. I would personally shove my womanhood is face and make him respect that. speak up for yourself sweetheart. we'll be here for you. big hugs dollBhavanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05532315428522549974noreply@blogger.com