tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2864708808295376991.post7578179272512282509..comments2023-09-19T08:14:41.357-07:00Comments on iGoddess: um, so...Soul Funk Goddesshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04850702763469159461noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2864708808295376991.post-14817820158736782972007-12-26T03:12:00.000-08:002007-12-26T03:12:00.000-08:00Angel girl ... go read Eat, Pray Love by Elizabeth...Angel girl ... go read Eat, Pray Love by Elizabeth Gilbert ... its changed my life!<BR/><BR/>mich<BR/>x.Michhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01954137751083675957noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2864708808295376991.post-21072938392805165012007-12-21T06:55:00.000-08:002007-12-21T06:55:00.000-08:00Holy fuck! Depressed much?Dee...(with love & in a ...Holy fuck! Depressed much?<BR/>Dee...(with love & in a soothing voice), I must say "You are heading into the *bad place*.<BR/>If you want love and marriage, (and that is NOT pathetic), then you need to take the first step.<BR/>Send his Idaho potato packing ass back where he came from. He is clearly not for you. I don't know the guy, and I'm sure he's very nice, but that's irrelevant. <BR/><BR/>Not to be all "Dr. Phil" about it, but new relationships are about following a natural order of sharing mutual love, staying up all night talking, and spending hours & hours of blissful happiness in bed.<BR/>Why are you allowing yourself to suffer through this? <BR/>It's your time to be happy. It's your time to be in a healthy, loving relationship. You know that, and you want that.<BR/>So show *m* the door, pick yourself up, and get on with your life. <BR/>There are a g'zillion guys out there, but they'll never find you if you're committed to this dysfunctional and depressing situation.<BR/>Seriously, show *m* the door.<BR/>much love & take care.<BR/>xoAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2864708808295376991.post-36043307203358741802007-12-17T10:51:00.000-08:002007-12-17T10:51:00.000-08:00everybody wants to be loved. that's not pathetic. ...everybody wants to be loved. that's not pathetic. everybody wants that magical thing where you're with someone who treasures you the way you treasure them. i wanted that from you at one time, only to find all these years later that you thought my love for you was twisted and weird, and is now met with indifference. so? i just go on. you just go on.<BR/><BR/>i'm not clear on how finding the wrong guy proves to you that there is no right guy. it just proves that *m* is the wrong guy. *big c* was the wrong guy. *n* was the wrong guy. i'm the wrong guy. there are billions of wrong guys. and there are prolly thousands of right guys.<BR/><BR/>but what you've really lost sight of is the fact that it doesn't matter if or when you find the right guy. you're still you. you can delete iGoddess, but it will still be you. the night we had our 'date', you had a joy in your voice, in your heart, in your life. it was a wonderful thing to hear! and it didn't come from me, or from *m*, or from anyone else. it came from you. it came from pride in who you are. it came from years of working on yourself, bettering yourself. and you will let some grunting neanderthal take that away from you with an 'i don't know'? it's yours, love. you earned it. take it back, dee. fight for it.<BR/><BR/>there's so much more i could say, but it all seems pointless, especially given your opinion of me now. but i just wish you could remember where you were pre-*m*, and find your way back there. please try.Greggohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14513431229566322384noreply@blogger.com