3.29.2007

duh

i've known this for a while, but i had to put it out there:

every man i've ever been attracted to has been either emotionally absent and made me feel like shit, or been incredibly needy in a sad, small, pathetic way and made me feel guilty and selfish.

i'm changing this as of, um, a while ago.

and before you post me comments like, "well duh!" or "i could have told you that," or "it's about time," or some stupid shit like that, look again at the title of this entry and then read the first line again.
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3 comments:

Ravyn said...

*hugs* It's as you told me...what almost 8 months ago now. Sometimes you have something you know deep within that simply INSISTS on being put into writing, even when it's something that doesn't need to be.

March 29, 2007 at 3:46 PM
Anonymous said...

whats interesting is that what you describe are polar opposites; either not emotional at all, or so emotionally needy that it is crippling.

funny thing... in the introspection that your posts always cause me, i realized that i have been both - the first before i knew you (five years of total emotional absence, actually), and the second.... well, you know all about the second. lol. i'm aiming for somewhere in between now, though i admit it's slow going.

~greggo

March 29, 2007 at 8:49 PM
Anonymous said...

omg!
Been there, done that, got the T-shirt!
I am now open to a normal man entering my far-too-long, bricked up existence.
...well maybe not too normal!
Mental stability is a must though!
Rock on igoddess!
:}

April 5, 2007 at 4:31 PM

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