i'm a bridesmaid.
this wouldn't be a problem...
pretty dresses, pretty SHOES, pretty hair, pretty SHOES, makeup, SHOES...
except that, given the size of delena's bust/waist/hips, i'm three different sizes. and they're all strapless. of all the choices *rc* gave me, they're all strapless with cinched waists.
this just does not do if you're delena, e.g. short and sadly plump. this is why you never see pics of me up here that haven't already been doctored...if i stand for pics at all. don't get me wrong. i have quite a lovely face, and i'm frequently complimented on my smile. but pretty much from the face down i need a personal trainer, a concentration camp diet, and tens of thousands of dollars in emergency-recovery surgery.
no wonder i shop at goodwill and usually stay out of weddings.